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Senior Citizen Letters

*Inspired by an activity choice in the GSUSA 1980s program for Across Generations

Writing letters to older adults is a special way to build friendships and learn about someone’s life. Many seniors enjoy getting mail. It helps them feel remembered and connected. You can write to a grandparent, a relative who lives far away, or someone you’re matched with through a local organization.

In your letters, ask questions about their childhood, favorite memories, or hobbies. Share things about your life too! Remember to send cards or notes for birthdays and holidays. If you ever need to stop writing, it’s kind to let your pen pal know so they’re not left wondering.

Take Action

Pen Pal Correspondence Worksheet:

Step 1: Choose Your Pen Pal

  • [ ] I’m writing to:
    ☐ A family member
    ☐ A senior from a retirement home
    ☐ A senior from a community agency
    Name: __________________________
    How I got connected: __________________________

Step 2: Start Writing

  • [ ] I introduced myself in my first letter
  • [ ] I asked about their life or memories
  • [ ] I shared something about myself
  • [ ] I decorated or personalized my letter

Step 3: Celebrate Special Days

  • [ ] I asked about their birthday or favorite holiday
  • [ ] I sent a card or note for a special occasion
    Occasion: __________________________

Step 4: Plan Ahead

  • [ ] I talked about how long I plan to write
  • [ ] If I need to stop, I’ll let my pen pal know kindly

Senior Letter Resources

Tia Kennard