Affirmation Jars

Activity Description: Youths create a decorated jar to collect self-kindness notes during the week. Every time they notice a moment of comparison or self-doubt, they write something nice about themselves and add it to the jar.

Fulfills Step 2 of GSUSA Junior Uniquely Us badge requirements.

Info Needed: Scouts recognize that everyone has unique strengths.


Items Needed:

  • Clean, empty jar (one per scout)
  • Art supplies to decorate jars (markers, stickers, ribbon, tape, etc.)
  • Slips of paper (blank or printed)
  • Pens or pencils

Instructions (Estimated Total Time: 15–40 minutes):

  1. Decorate the Jar (10–15 minutes)
    • Each scout decorates their jar using the supplies provided.
    • Jars can include uplifting symbols, kind words, or fun patterns.
    • (Optional) Scouts can add a label like “My Kindness Jar” or “Positive Me Notes.”
  2. Explain the Practice (5–7 minutes)
    • Scouts will take their jars home and watch for moments when they compare themselves to others.
    • Each time this happens, they’ll pause and write something kind or true about themselves on a slip of paper.
    • Examples: “I’m a good helper,” “I can be silly and kind,” “My brain is strong.”
  3. Use the Jar During the Week (On Your Own Time)
    • Scouts place each slip in their jar after they write it.
    • They may add one note each day or only when needed.
  4. (Optional at next meeting) Reflect and Share (10–13 minutes)
    • After a week, scouts open their jar and read their notes.
    • (Optional) Invite scouts to share one favorite message with the group or keep it private.
    • Celebrate that noticing kindness builds self-confidence and helps avoid the comparison trap.