Teens Value Themselves

Middle and high schoolers often grapple with societal pressures and the desire for validation, so fostering a space where they learn to value themselves beyond appearance is essential.

Here are actions and ideas a scout leader can implement:

Focus on Building Self-Worth

  1. Highlight Strengths and Achievements
    Regularly recognize each scout’s strengths, talents, or accomplishments—whether academic, creative, athletic, or social. Celebrate their efforts and hard work. This reinforces the idea that their value comes from what they do, not just how they look.
  2. Encourage Goal-Setting
    Guide scouts to set personal goals, like learning a new skill, volunteering, or achieving something meaningful. Accomplishing goals fosters confidence and emphasizes self-growth over external validation.

Provide Role Models

  1. Share Stories of Inspirational Women
    Introduce scouts to the stories of impactful women who achieved success through intelligence, resilience, and hard work, rather than focusing on appearance. For example, scientists, activists, artists, or community leaders.
  2. Invite Guest Speakers
    Organize visits from mentors who exemplify confidence and leadership, and who can share their journeys about self-acceptance and embracing inner strength.

Educate on Media Literacy

  1. Talk About Unrealistic Standards
    Lead discussions about how media often promotes unrealistic beauty standards and how this can affect self-esteem. Highlight the importance of critical thinking when consuming media.
  2. Activity: Spot the Edits
    Teach scouts how to identify altered images or exaggerated portrayals in advertising and social media. This can help them see beauty for its diversity rather than perfection.

Cultivate Empathy and Team Spirit

  1. Kindness Challenges
    Have scouts write positive notes to each other or share compliments that focus on inner qualities, like kindness, humor, and perseverance. Building bonds shifts focus away from external appearances.
  2. Volunteer Projects
    Organize opportunities where scouts make a positive impact, such as helping their community. These activities show them they have the power to bring change and make them feel valuable.

Boost Confidence Through Activities

  1. Skill-Building Activities
    Teach activities that build confidence, like survival skills, cooking, crafting, or public speaking. Accomplishing something new gives scouts a sense of pride in their abilities.
  2. Challenge Activities
    Encourage team-building challenges, such as creating presentations, planning troop events, or solving puzzles together. Scouts see their leadership potential and what they can offer to the group.

Lead by Example

  • As a scout leader, show confidence in your own abilities and personality. Model self-acceptance by focusing on qualities, actions, and achievements rather than appearances. Scouts often look up to leaders for cues on self-worth.

GSUSA Fun Patches

See also Celebrating Teen Individuality.

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